November:
Peace, hope & luck. Can I make a difference, is peace possible, Hope for a better life(style). Is good luck and happiness possible for everyone and how?
The simplest answer to all of the questions is yes. Yes, YOU can make a difference. Yes, peace is possible. Please, never give up the hope to improve your life and lifestyle. Yes, good luck and happiness are possible for everyone
How? Focus on gratitude. However shitty, your life, your experiences, the people around you are. There is always something that you can be grateful for. By focussing determinedly on finding wherever that teeny, tiny space of gratitude has hidden itself, you will force that space to increase.
How to make a difference? Open your mouth. Once a day, every day say one thing you believe or wish with all your heart or something that needs to be said in something or someone’s defence or actually voice your disagreement with something that has been said. Be prepared to not be liked rather than go home in self attack – for not taking your space.
Hope is all well and good but hope with no action is meaningless. Hope connected to standing up courageously for what you believe, listening well, first, then saying what you think, refusing to back down to bullies and injustice, being prepared and eager to learn, wanting your ideas challenged and engaging in fervent disagreement are the ways to create peace.
Knowing you are actively contributing to the creation of peace will improve your life amazingly, when your life feels better your life style has less importance.
Good luck is walking in integrity with yourself, at that point you begin magnetising your desires. You will find yourself in the right place, at the exact time you need to be there.
Happiness is knowing that whatever happens, whatever life throws at you can overcome and move forward. Happiness is not the absence of obstacles and problems it's knowing they only occur to help you define your forward direction.
Simple, not easy.
Tuesday, 15 November 2016
Friday, 30 September 2016
Sunday, 25 September 2016
For Raphael and Marie - if you come looking!
Who Me?
This
skin, this hair, these lips, these feet, this backside are all the
evidence
and
proof I need that Africa is integral to me
Africa;
seat of humanity, civilisation, erudition; denuded by greed, still
suffering and bleeding.
This
mind, it's thoughts, these words, this culture are the legacy of my
European birth
I’m
an Afropean, take me to a museum,
Progeny
of a masterful strain, spawned by unnatural selection
This
man sings revolution, that man says do human revolution
Meaning
that any person - even me - who decides to and changes positively
Improves
their environment incrementally
That
is how we are gonna make world peace.
But
I say revolution is circling, rotating often stagnating
I
want to sing and do EVOLUTION
Inherent
improvement, exponential, expansion of potential.
Cos
what you fight you make stronger
A
battle against evil expands it, extends the journey makes it longer
Visibly
African, feeling European
Issue
of survivalist genes, shaped in animality, created in barbarity
Strength,
rage, tenacity, ingrained before puberty
Cultured
and nurtured on a continent of prosperity, created with ill gotten
gains
Still
sustained by slavery.
Chocolate
slaves definitely, sugar, tea, coffee, orange slaves by definition, a
surety
Though
most subscribe to the mendacity of the supposed abolition of slavery.
I’m
an Afropean put me in a museum, make a pseudo scientific exhibition
of me.
European
intercourse over the centuries, makes of me a stranger in my home
A
lowland culture that ignores it’s history, that celebrates and
honours genocidal stupidity
Ignorants
who pillaged so called primitive cultures, made a golden era from
rivers of blood
The
age old story of massacre and misery for financial glory
Walk
the streets of Aleppo, the story’s just the same
(*Define
for me clearly, I acknowledge those who have tried.
The
difference between zuilen and apartheid.*)
Tolerance
claimed here in abundance but tolerance is a filthy mire
Acceptance
is absent yet, that is what I require.
Many
times magnetised by a similarity of skin tone
Far
too often judged, rejected, too strange, too different, too unknown
Self
oppression and racism make this skin difficult to own
Lucky,
blessed to have been only metaphorically stabbed to the bone.
Name
me Afropean, neither one thing nor the other
Colour
does not define my sisters, it does assign my brothers
Look
elsewhere for explanations of my feminist opinions
I’m
now exploring the schisms of my outer and my inner.
Wednesday, 24 August 2016
Lavender Essential Oil
Extracted by steam
distillation from the fragrant flowers of the lavender plant, and
used for in a wide variety of applications for centuries. The Latin name of
lavender is Lavare, which means “to wash”, because it is seen as having a particularly 'clean' aroma.
This was
the first later named 'essential oil' discovered by Tisserand in the
branch of alternative medicine that has come to be known as
aromatherapy.
Antiseptic,
antibiotic, anti-fungal, anti-viral, anti-inflammatory
Bug
Repellent*: The smell of lavender essential oil is potent for
many types of bugs like mosquitoes, midges, and moths. Apply some of
the lavender oil on the exposed skin when outside to prevent these
irritating bites. Furthermore, if you do happen to be bitten by one
of those bugs, the lavender essential oil has qualities that will
reduce the irritation and the pain associated with bug bites
It induces sleep,
frequent studies on (elderly) patients have shown it has such a
relaxing impact on people that it can often replace modern medicine
for sleep issues.
Soporific* (induces sleep). Frequent studies on (elderly) patients have shown it
has such a relaxing impact on people that it can often replace modern
medicine for sleep issues.
Nervous
system*: an excellent tonic for nerves and anxiety, helpful
for migraines, headaches, depression, nervous tension and emotional
stress. It removes nervous exhaustion and restlessness while
increasing mental activity. Used frequently to regulate heart-rate
variability.
Acne* is a
bacterial infection near the sebum gland, which creates a vicious
cycle of irritation, infection and visible sores that can result in
serious scarring. This oil inhibits the bacteria that cause
infection, regulates over-excretion of sebum, heals the infection and
can reduce signs of scarring.
Pain relief*:
Excellent for sore, tense muscles, rheumatism, sprains, backache,
lumbago, muscular aches,. Regular massage provides relief from joint
pain. A study on postoperative pain relief showed that adding the
vapour to the oxygen significantly reduced the amount of pain
experienced, after a major surgery.
Urinary
system: Stimulates urine production, helps
restore hormonal balance, reduces cystitis, inflammation of the
urinary tract and bladder. Reduces cramps from these and other
disorders.
Respiratory
systems*: For throat
infections, flu, cough, cold, asthma, sinus congestion, bronchitis,
whooping cough, laryngitis and tonsillitis. As a vapour, or diluted
and applied to the neck, chest and/or back, it loosens and helps
naturally eliminate phlegm, relieves congestion, speeds recovery
process. The vapour is antibacterial which battles respiratory
infections.
Hair*:
Very effective on lice, live lice eggs and nits. Very helpful with
hair loss. A Sottish study reported more than
40% of alopecia patients had an increase in hair growth from
regularly rubbing lavender into their scalp*. Recommended as a
preventative measure for male pattern baldness.
Cancer:
Though
more research is needed, there is a significant
amount on the effects of lavender, in combination with other
essential oils, in preventing breast cancer in mice and strong
indications of lavender battling carcinogenic effects and the
presence of cancer.
Blood
circulation: Improves blood circulation. Research shows lavender has beneficial effects on coronary circulation. The brain
and organs increase their levels of oxygenation, promoting muscle
strength and health giving a noticeable boost, skin is
bright and flushed with blood, the body is protected from the risk of
heart attack and atherosclerosis often associated with poor
circulation. It
lowers blood pressure and is often used for hypertension.
Digestion:
increases the mobility of food within the intestine, also stimulates
the production of gastric juices and bile, aiding in the treatment of
indigestion, stomach pain, colic, flatulence, vomiting and diarrhoea.
Immunity:
Regular use is indicated as providing resistance to a variety of diseases like TB,
typhoid, and diphtheria.
Skin*: Used to treat acne, wrinkles, psoriasis, with chamomile it
treats eczema, and all inflammatory skin conditions. It speeds the healing
of wounds, cuts, burns, sunburns and reduces the formation of
scar tissue.
Wimin iused to treat leucorrhoea (vaginal
discharge).
Blends well with
most oils particularly cedar wood, pine, clary sage, geranium and
nutmeg.
Word of
Caution
It is recommended
that diabetics avoid this oil. It can cause allergic
reactions in people with unusually sensitive skin. Excessive use may
create nausea, vomiting and/or headaches. Only apply topically or inhale. Lavender eo should never be ingested, ingestion can cause serious complications, including blurred vision,
difficulty breathing, burning eyes, vomiting, and diarrhoea!\
* coming very soon to recipes blog
Monday, 15 August 2016
Clary Sage EO
Clary
Sage is extracted by steam distillation from the buds and
leaves of the Salvia Sclarea plant. It is believed to be
native to Europe and has been highly praised as a medicinal plant
throughout history, owing particularly to its numerous benefits for
eye health and vision.
A close relative of garden sage, sometimes called “Muscatel Oil”, due to its use for this traditional flavouring.
A close relative of garden sage, sometimes called “Muscatel Oil”, due to its use for this traditional flavouring.
The chief components are Sclareol, Alpha
Terpineol, Geraniol, Linalyl Acetate, Linalool, Caryophyllene, Neryl
Acetate and Germacrene-D. Clary means clear, Sage wisdom.
The oil was and still is primarily used as an eye cleanser. However it has many other medicinal applications
The oil was and still is primarily used as an eye cleanser. However it has many other medicinal applications
Antidepressant: can boost self
esteem, confidence, hope and mental strength, thereby efficiently
fighting depression, whether due to failures in career or personal
life, insecurity, loneliness, stagnation, death of a friend or loved
and many other reasons. Relieves anxiety, it can be systematically
administered to depression sufferers undergoing rehabilitation.
Anti convulsive:
calms, sedates tense nerves, brings peace of mind and reduces
convulsions, whether their epileptic or from another nervous or
mental condition or disorder.
Antispasmodic: It
relaxes nerve impulses and doesn’t allow uncontrollable spasms to
occur so
is an effective treatment for spasms, muscle,
including respiratory system cramps, spasmodic coughs, stomach aches,
headaches and spasmodic cholera.
Antibacterial: kills bacteria and
fungi, curbs growth and spread of bacterial infections and protects
against new infection. Particularly beneficial in curing bacterial
infections in the colon, intestines, urinary tract and excretory
system. Equally effective in inhibiting harmful bacteria entering our
body through water or food.
Antiseptic: Applied
topically prevents
wounds becoming septic or infected with tetanus. It
can protect the body during surgical recovery in all varieties of
wounds.
Aphrodisiac: Boosts
libido and feelings of sexual desire, very effective in treating
frigidity, psychological problems resulting in loss of libido, and
even impotency. Effective in males and females, it affects the
hormones by increasing testosterone levels, which in turn increases
interest in sexual activities and apparently performance.
Astringent:It's astringent
properties strengthen gums, it also strengthens and tones the skin,
muscles and hair follicles, preventing/minimising hair loss. It
functions as an antioxidant by tightening up skin sagging due to free
radicals present in the body.
Skin Health: it contains an ester
called linalyl acetate, which reduces skin inflammation and heals
rashes, it balances and regulates the production of natural oils in
the skin, reducing both oily and dry skin making skin look younger.
Recommended to be used directly, or mixed into a carrier oil to
facilitate maximum absorption and effect.
Carminative: Can eliminate gas
quickly, through flatulence, which reduces bloating. It also inhibits
the formation of gas.
Emmenagogue: If you are having
troubles with irregular, obstructed or painful menses or menopause,
try Clary Sage before seeing a gynaecologist. It has no adverse side
effects but simply stimulates the opening of obstructed menses, while
easing pain. It also cures dizziness and mental irritation during
periods and helps regulate them. Excellent for treating Post
Menopause Syndrome. It reduces the symptoms and negative effects
associated with menstruation like cramping, bloating, mood swings and
food cravings by balancing hormone that can run rampant during this
time.
Euphoric: Can induce feelings of
immense joy, confidence, pleasure, high spirits and fill one with the
desire to live life to the fullest. Frequently used to cure
depression, chronic stress and anxiety.
Hypotensive: is the
antonym of Hypertensive. Very effective in reducing blood pressure by
relaxing the veins and arteries, which reduces the risk of heart
attack, stroke, atherosclerosis and brain haemorrhaging. Reduces
blood pressure, widens the blood vessels allowing increased
circulation, increased oxygenation to muscles and the organ systems,
which boosts their and overall metabolic performance.
Nervine: Sedates nervous
convulsions, nervousness, vertigo, anxiety and hysteria.
Sedative: Reduces inflammations,
has an undeniably calming effect. Gives great comfort from chronic
stress or anxiety disorders.
Stomachic: Heals ulcers and
wounds in the stomach. Stimulates efficient absorption of nutrients,
digestion of food and regulation of bowel movements. It protects the
integrity of your colon and reduces the chance of serious
gastrointestinal conditions, including colorectal cancer.
Deodorant: An efficient deodorant
without side effects. It is natural and the effects last.
Digestive: promotes and speeds
digestion, relieves indigestion, boosts the secretion of gastric
juices and bile, relieves cramping, bloating and abdominal
discomfort.
Uterine: helps to maintain good
health of the uterus before and after menopause, including uterine
tumors, bleeding, and pain, it regulates hormones reducing chances of
uterine and ovarian cancer.
Other Benefits: Can battle
addiction (particularly drugs) and stimulate a change in mentality
towards a positive approach to life. It is anti-inflammatory, can
treat back aches and joint pain. It regulates excess sebum
production, preventing acne from forming. Eases labour by reducing
pain.
A Few Words of Caution: It's
relaxant, sedative nature can enhance the intoxicating effects of
alcohol and other narcotics. Heavy dosage can cause headaches.
Pregnant or nursing women are often advised to avoid using it, though it is highly recommended to have a bottle handy for the actual birth!
Blending: Lemon, Lime, Orange all
citrus, Lavender, Pine, Juniper, Geranium, Sandalwood, Jasmine and
Frankincense.
Saturday, 13 August 2016
An Unexpected Love - a piece by Heli St Luce
I fell in love with my body today
Stopped looking at it for a moment through
the world's eyes
That compare and judge, criticise,
condemn and despise
I felt it's strength of muscle and
bone
The warmth of my skin, it's shades, it’s
tones
The fact that it takes by yielding
gives in receiving, soft, lush, pliable
I liked for the first time in all my
years that my hands
Sink into my tummy and almost
disappear
Hands that shape, mould, strain
To re create that which has been
destroyed, build it up again
These hands encircled and cradled
As praise for the way that they pull
me through the haze
They form order in the chaos and
soothe the craze
My hands in my tummy are stroked as
they stroke, held as they hold
My body is amazing.
If I think of all the things it can
do. How it carries this heavy mind in warmth
My body is an angel to me
For though it's very visible it's
something that I rarely see
I don't want to look and when I do,
I see, to my ire
It doesn't fit the perfect shape to which
I should aspire. It's wrong.
It reflects my love of the
sedentary, the imaginary, it reflects my love of food
It's skin shows; that my ancestors
were, (and still are by some)
thought of as animals or lesser,
lower beings,
Some assume I'm stupid and can't
access finer feelings
My hair shows that despite these
beliefs, many of the higher order
Were very keen to fuck those of the
animals they didn't work to death or slaughter.
My body has shapes that don't fit,
can't sit, over fill, stretch and strain
But it makes love and it cuddles and
it laughs so loud,
It has hairs where they choose to
grow a silly fact of which I‘m proud
It's is not perky but it is firm, it’s
cushioned, fleshy, squishy
It is a body of the most ancient Goddess figurines
For many thousand years this body
was a worshipped form
From the honour to this body some
say the earliest societies were born
It is a primeval woman's body not a
maiden's, nor a boys
It can only hope to be loved by a
fearless warrior for the Goddess
One who embraces peril and adventure
for their joys
Who holds their breath to plumb the
depths, strives to rise to fresher skies on an unknown shore
These and many mysteries my body
holds in store.
Today I fell in love with my body
The feeling faded after a short
time, drawn away by thoughts, reverie, contemplation
But it felt so good, those few short
moments of internal animation
I'm going to do it again as soon as
I may, it comes unbidden,
I hope it
stays
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